A few years ago, when my oldest started
middle school, I felt like she was growing up fast. In a good
way, but it was still scary for Mom. I wanted to be there and remind her of
who she is and the potential she has for good. But I couldn't be
there all the time. I decided some inspiration was needed.
Together, we started collecting little
encouraging sayings, and handouts and even kind notes from her
friends into a wall collage above her bed. She was totally on board
with the project. I don't know what the measurable effect is for
encouragement. But I do know it makes a powerful visual statement
when her friends come over and see her walls. It's a lot of little
reminders of what being an awesome teenager looks like...and she is
awesome.
